“Sing me a song of a lass who is gone…”

LINCOLNVILLE — Janet Winstanley Ray, born February 26, 1954, in Chelsea, Massachusetts, passed away this past October. Daughter of the late John and Joan Dean Winstanley, Janet grew up on military bases around the world with her siblings, Deborah Djuric, Dianne “Chipper” O’Connell, and David Winstanley, who remember her as a sister with a mischievous twinkle in her eye and a witty sense of humor. The family eventually settled in Lincolnville Beach; a place Janet remained especially fond of.

“Miamas means I love.”

In 1973, Janet became the beloved wife of Roland Ray, with whom she shared adventures, laughter, and a family she cherished. She was a selfless and spirited mother to their two children, Jessica Andrews and Justin Ray, of whom she was incredibly proud. Her grandchildren—Eric (Buddy), Kara (Bee), Alivia (Livvy), Maia (Mohawk), and Alex (Big)—affectionately called her Jannie. She filled their lives with stories, both from her own experiences and from her boundless imagination. Janet had a deep love for her family and fought fiercely to stay close to them.

“One day at a time. One dream at a time… Because life is both complicated and simple. Which is why there are cookies.”

Janet was a giver. Her creativity blossomed in her gardens, in hand-sewn special occasion dresses, and in the warm crocheted blankets she lovingly gifted to family and friends. Her gingerbread cookies became legendary, eagerly awaited each Christmas for over 40 years by grandchildren and classmates alike. A passionate reader, her love for books and storytelling continues to inspire those she held dear.

This summer, Janet’s family will honor her privately in Lincolnville. They invite all who were touched by her spirit to plant a flower, read a book, or share a story and laughter with a loved one in her memory.

Janet Winstanley Ray: a heart full of love and a legacy of stories that will light the stars forever.

“Oidche mhath.”

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