MIDCOAST—Valentine’s Day isn't for everyone, especially if you’re flying solo. Whether you’re embracing the freedom of single life or just want to dodge all the heart-shaped clichés, check out five fun, anti-V-Day happenings in the Midcoast that are perfect for singles looking to have a blast on Friday, February 14.

I Hate Valentine's Day Party

Bistro La Cave, Camden

While they are serving dinner for the love birds from 5 to 9 p.m., wear your perfect all-black ensemble and hit their Anti-Valentine’s Day Bash at 9:30 p.m., "where you can nicely dismantle the cheesy Valentine’s décor, make real connections, play some games, and celebrate love in all its fun, unconventional, and carefree forms."

This is a fun event for V-Day rebels with a stack of board games and conversation starters. They even have wristbands:

Red: Open to love and romance (but on your terms).
Green: Ready for anything – surprise me!
Blue: Just here to make friends and chill.
Yellow: Flirting is fun, but commitment isn’t on the menu.
Orange: No thanks, I’m just here for the party.

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Good Tern Wine Tasting

Good Tern Coop, Rockland

The best part of not sharing a bottle of wine with another is... more for you!

From 4 to 6 p.m., the Good Tern Coop is hosting a wine tasting with their wine and beer buyer, Deminique. Enjoy red and white wines from Domaine Montluzia vineyard in France, aswell as a Junmai Rosé Sasanigori Sake. Take it one step further and make a special dinner for yourself or friends that pairs well with these wines and sake with recipes here and here.

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Dance Party with The Right Track

Watts Hall, Thomaston

You know the expression, "Dance like nobody's watching?"

Nobody is watching, so go ahead and enjoy yourself and dance to the music of The Right Track, an 11-piece R&B, soul, and funk band. The show goes from 7 to 9 p.m. The Block Saloon will be on-site with a beer and wine cash bar, and Watts Hall will have light concessions available for purchase.

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Singles & Friends Night

Hot Hill Tavern, Thomaston

Hot Hill is getting into the solo vibe "without all the mushy stuff" starting at 6:30 p.m. They'll do giveways, host a human Scavenger Hunt, and play Cards Against Humanity.

"It's a way to get people to talk to each other," said co-owner Carly Laughery. "Because in a bar, sometimes people tend to sink into their phones. We're not going to try and hook you up with somebody. I feel like Valentine's Day, if you're not in a couple, it is kind of depressing."

She emphasized that this night is more for adult humor. 

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Love is Funny... with Ian Stuart

Hey Sailor, Searsport

A night of comedy is just what Doctor Lovelorn ordered. Hey Sailor hosts headliner comedian Ian Stuart, star of the YouTube comedy sensation "Welcome to Maine."

He will be joined by comedians Dennis Fogg and Rosellen Earl.

Hey Sailor will have food and cocktails available, and the event starts at 7 p.m. Whether you're single, taken, or "it's complicated," this event is sure to bring a smile to your face. Grab your tickets for $15 before they're gone!

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Kay Stephens can be reached at news@penbaypilot.com